Life changing momnets?

Have you ever noticed that those big life chang­ing moments that always hap­pen in the movies don’t hap­pen much in real life?
You wake up one day and realise that your dif­fer­ent to the per­son you were ten years ago… but you can’t say when the change hap­pened, or how, it just did a lit­tle bit at a time.
And your left hop­ing that the per­son you once were and the per­son you are now don’t hate each oth­er.