Kewl, lol & mate?

I use the word ‘kewl’ a lot, both in on-line chat and in-per­son con­ver­sa­tions. In both cas­es I usu­al­ly dou­ble it into ‘kewl kewl’. It is a response to indi­cate that I was actu­al­ly lis­ten­ing to what you had to say, and a gen­er­al com­ment of under­stand­ing and agree­ment.
The spelling is spe­cif­ic and delib­er­ate. Some­thing in me hates with a pas­sion the word ‘cool’. I don’t know exact­ly why, some­thing to do with it being a word of the old­er gen­er­a­tion, or maybe in my messed up brain I asso­ciate ‘cool’ with Amer­i­cana and all the things I dis-like about the USA. So when I first stum­bled across the ‘kewl’ spelling (back in 1994, give me some street creed here), I was drawn to it, and it has since stuck. I make no excus­es or apolo­gies. While it maybe crass and seem une­d­u­cat­ed, just maybe I’m choos­ing from a posi­tion of informed deter­mi­na­tion.
I’ve also noticed recent­ly that I use the word ‘mate’ when chat­ting on-line, but nev­er use it in in-per­son con­ver­sa­tions. No idea what that means.
I also use ‘lol’ on-line a lot, but nev­er in-per­son. Here it is obvi­ous, in-per­son some­one can actu­al­ly see if your laugh­ing. On-line, I think ‘lol’ is more imme­di­ate and gen­uine than typ­ing back ‘i find that very fun­ny’.