Best left unsaid?

I am remind­ed tonight of a com­ment Alex made a few days ago. He said he some­times wished he had a sec­ond web log, one that nobody read, one that he could safe­ly slag out his friends with­out fear that they may actu­al­ly read it. But I say to him, screw that, be as bitchy as you want on your blog. Don’t care what peo­ple might think.
The rea­son I am remind­ed of this is a long and wan­der­ing con­ver­sa­tion between Richard and I had this evening. Rich said many things, I said lit­tle. Most­ly because I know I’d be tak­en the wrong way, and also because most of what I had felt like say­ing boiled down to “I told you so”, and I not keep­ing score so it does­n’t real­ly mat­ter.
One sub­ject that we went into a bit, and Rich brought this up which sur­prised me, was my Ber­nice sto­ry. If I under­stood right­ly Rich’s basic state­ment was that the prob­lems I’m cur­rent­ly hav­ing with the sto­ry are noth­ing more than a fab­ri­cat­ed excuse not to actu­al­ly write it. He may be right. But then again he has­n’t read it so I could­n’t go into specifics. Regard­less, he had some very good ideas, as did Alex when I dis­cussed the sto­ry with him.
Ber­nice and the Doc­tor catch­ing up for a chat and some tea is after all a bor­ing sto­ry. Rich says I write as if I’m writ­ing a dic­tio­nary… I’m still not too clear on what he meant by that. He also said that I can get away with a bor­ing sto­ry if I tell it in an inter­est­ing way (and I’m assum­ing he does­n’t think my ‘dic­tio­nary’ style inter­est­ing at all).
Of course I’m aware that Rich will most like read this post at some point, but what peo­ple make of what is writ­ten here is there own prob­lem. For Rich more so than any­one else.